What Would I Be Doing Right Now?

What would I be doing right now?

        This is a common question that I get from potential slaves all the time.  I really never know how to take that question. I always wonder to myself, Are they asking because they genuinely are interested in the types of things I might have them doing or are they trying to steer the conversation into a role play back and forth between us, which I think is completely pointless. No, it doesn’t make my dick hard to talk about this shit.    

         Inevitably, they always hate the answer I give because I always say “How the fuck would I know?” Which I don’t know, I can’t predict the future any more than they can. I mean I could make up some hypothetical scenario to appease their mind but it would be a lie because I really don’t know.      
  Another possible answer to the above question is “Whatever I need you to be doing at the moment.”  This statement usually doesn’t garner any better reception on the submissive’s part, but it’s another true answer. I expect and demand my slaves to be ready to serve me 24/7. There is no amount of time during the day or night that belongs to my boy. It doesn’t matter if it is getting me a glass of lemonade, 3 hour fuck session or if I am allowing a boy to sleep, his time always belongs to me.    

       So, I guess what I am saying is, in answer to that question, “Does it really matter?” As long as you are doing what you have been told you to do, you are serving and pleasing, and that is all that ever matters.  If your goal is to become a Total Power Exchange slave you should be ready for and expect to do anything at any time. There is no way you could be given every possible duty that would be expected of you. You roll with the flow, and obey your Master. In a reality, that is all you need to know.

Important Shit…Stop Jacking off for a Minute and Read

This post is going to be short, but probably one of the most important I have written so far.

     Tonight I had a slave prospect of mine tell me that he has been struggling with depression lately and he has recently considered suicide.      

      I told him and now I am telling you, if any one of who read my blog is struggling with any type of depression or other issues reach out to someone and get help.  If you don’t have someone close to you contact me and we will talk though the shit.

     Do Not Suffer In Silence…there is always a way and another day.

The Wrong Fucking Idea....

During the course of conversation with some prospective slaves I have had them say to me that they were “giving up a lot” in order to become my slave. For me, this immediately eliminated them from any further consideration in my mind.

This statement tells me that they do not have a grasp of what the life of a service slave is all about. I could take the time to try and educate them (and some Masters might) but, at this point in my life I don’t have time for it, I just move on to the next.

What these boys (that make that comment) fail to understand is that they aren’t giving up anything (expect their freedom). They are gaining a person in their life that has their best interest at heart. Someone who wants them to succeed and will actually push and motivate them to do more than even they could imagine.

A slave needs to know that these ideas of living 24 hours a day shackled and hooded in someone’s basement are ridiculous and not realistic. A slave isn’t giving up life when he submits to a Master.  He should be gaining a partner that is going to push him to be the best version of himself that he can be.  If a slave thinks anything other than that, he has gotten the wrong fucking idea…

MD

Sex vs. Service

     You will hear me use the term “service” or “service slave” a lot.  I thought I would clarify what exactly I am talking about.

     A service slave does any and everything his Master asks of him to make the Master’s life easier and contribute to the household.  It could be anything from cleaning, cooking, working a job for income, washing the car, washing the dog, mowing the grass, fucking, driving the Master around, any other sex acts the Master enjoys.  Basically anything.

     I listed all of those chores because I have been in conversation with potential slaves and I tell them I expect them to do “anything” they are ordered to do.  A look of confusion comes across their face more often than not and they actually ask me what anything means.  LOL, anything means anything. A service slave is there to serve, and enjoys it while he is doing it.

     Problems start to arise because a lot of people use the term service a code word for sucking or fucking a cock. I think this is the boy needs to be aware of who he is talking to and what the context the word is used based on the prior conversation.  I can guarantee you that if a Master is talking to you about being a Total Power Exchange slave in his household he expects more out of you besides sex.

     Just remember if you are talking to a TPE slave Master be prepared to serve and “anything” literally means anything.

MD

Keeping It Real...

The one thing I value most when talking to a slave prospect is the boy’s honesty.  I don’t need you to blow yourself up to be more than you are or dumb yourself down either if you are an intelligent boy. I need you to be forthcoming with information about yourself and your current situation. In other words, I need you to keep it real. 

My initial goal in my first contact with a boy is to find out if you are even a prospect I would like to own. I have my own preferences and things that I look for when evaluating a new boy, and I am sure other Masters have their own criteria and initial checklist. Sure, I want to know about your fetishes and what turns you on and off, I definitely want to talk about that, but I also want to know about you personally.  I need to know if you are the type of person I want to train, and more importantly want in my home on a full time basis.

The connection between a Master and slave is a journey. It starts with that initial contact I make with a boy I hopefully will continue to grow throughout the time that I own him.  It can be one of the strongest most emotional connections you will ever have in life, but it starts with being honest and open about yourself, your life, and the direction you want it to take.

So, remember starting with that first conversation with your potential new Master…Keep it Real!

MD