Just who do you think you are?

So the question is what are you?  I think people become interested in this lifestyle for varying reasons, therefore they have varying ideas about what it means to be a submissive.  Here are a few of the main categories I see out there:

1) Sex Slave: This is probably the most common type of boy out there.  This boy has probably learned about the lifestyle by watching porn and reading stories on the internet.  These stories were probably based around gang bang and constant, 24/7 sex and now he has in his mind that this is what the lifestyle is all about.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this approach if this is what you want.  There are plenty of men who will take you and use you for a night or a weekend and happily send you on your way.  You can submit your body to them in any way or as long as you want and as long as each party is satisfied no harm done.  The key here is that you are submitting your body and nothing else.  There is no expectation of a higher level mental or emotional connection beyond the sex.

2) Kink Slave: This can also be called a fetish slave.  This type of boy has something specific that gets him off.  He seeks to find compatible partners on the opposite side of the fetish he is into.

The type of fetish really doesn’t matter.  It could be abdl, foot fetish, scat, sado/maso, whatever his brain has been conditioned to need to get him off.  These boys aren’t really interested in submitting beyond that narrow box that their brain has been conditioned to need.  Conversation with this type of boy will seldom change from their fetish interest.  So there really isn’t much submitting done to a Master for this type of boy. It is really a narrow minded self-serving interest in their own fetish.  

3) Cash Slave: Yes this is a thing.  It really could be put under a fetish but I broke it out to highlight it.  Simply put there are submissives/slaves that get off and spending and sending money to their Master.  You can think it’s right or wrong or not understand it but just like any other fetish you aren’t into, you shouldn’t judge what other people do.

4) Service Slave: A service slave is basically on that lives to serve his Master. It maybe be cleaning is house, cooking his meals, serving guest at a dinner party, mowing his lawn, anything that makes the dominants life easier.  This type of slave gets off on serving another man. Many times it doesn’t matter if the Master is gay or straight this boy just enjoys and gets satisfaction from what he does.  There may or may not be sex involved when dealing with a service slave.

5) Total Power Exchange Slave: This type of boy in my mind is really the ultimate type of slave (and the kind I look for personally).  This boy has thought about and realized what he is and is ready to embrace his destiny.  He knows that there are Alphas and betas in the world and is ready to stop trying to be the Alpha everyone around him thinks he is going to be.

A TPE slave is really the embodiment of all 4 previous slave types already discussed.  A good Master will take a boy like this and completely reprogram him to be a slave for life. A TPE slave gives his Master complete autonomy and control of his life.  This means the relationship is built on trust, not sex. The boy is willing to disrupt and start his life again with his Master as he knows that deep down no matter what he accomplishes in his life he won’t be satisfied with that guiding force beside him. This is the ultimate connection between Master and slave where a Master is going to connect and mold this boy on a social, physical, mental and sometimes even spiritual level.  This type of boy is capable of being a 24/7 live in slave.

     OK, that is a lot to read and digest in one sitting so I am going to leave it there for now.  I am sure that will generate some questions and comments, so post those as well, so that we are all learning from each other.

MD